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Our story begins much
like many married couples. We were married for about 2 years
when we decided we were ready to start a family. We were a
little unsure if I was able to even get pregnant. When I was
five years old, I was diagnosed and treated for Wilms Tumor, a solid
mass cancer involving the kidneys. My doctors felt the
radiation they used to treat the cancer may have affected my ability
to become pregnant.
Fortunately, without much
waiting, we were pregnant in 2002 with our first baby. The
pregnancy went very well until I went into labor on July 16th,
at only 20 weeks gestation. Due to the extreme prematurity of our
son, Kade Michael Saxton, he did not survive the birth. He
weighed 12.5 ounces and was 10 ½ long. He was a perfect little
baby, just too small to survive. About 6 months later, we were
ready to try again. Again, without any waiting, we became
pregnant with our second baby. After consulting with a
high-risk maternal/neonatal doctor we knew the pregnancy was going
along with out any complications. Unfortunately, again at just
21 weeks gestation, I went into labor and we had a second son, Kort
James Saxton. Kort weighed 12.1 ounces and he was 12 inches
long. He too was a perfect little boy, just too small to
survive.
Jamie and I did a lot of
praying about what our next step should be in life. We
discussed trying to conceive again. We both felt this was
selfish of us, risking the life of another child. We then
decided to adopt a child. This too took a lot of praying.
During the stressful time of filling out the adoption paperwork, I
did not know I was pregnant.
We saw our obstetrician,
Dr. Peter Bump, and he confirmed the pregnancy with an ultrasound.
Not only were we pregnant, we were pregnant with twins. We
felt this may be a good sign. This was something very
different than our first two pregnancies.
During the next several
months, we saw the high-risk maternal/neonatal doctor and Dr. Bump.
I had weekly ultrasounds to monitor the babies. At 16 weeks
gestation, we suffered another loss. One of the twins had
died. The chance of us loosing the other baby was very high,
but Jamie and I prayed that God would watch over this child.
The ultrasound confirmed that we were pregnant with two girls.
So we knew we had to hold onto the hope that we would have a baby
girl to bring home. I was able to stay pregnant for
another 11 weeks. At 27 weeks gestation, I went into labor.
Chloe Rose Saxton was born at 8:03 p.m. on October 13, 2006.
Chloe weighed 2 pounds 5 ounces and was 14 inches long. Chloe
was born via C-Section due to her breech presentation and he size.
We will never forget hearing her little cry. Her cry was so
weak, yet it was so strong! Never had Jamie or I had the
blessing of hearing any of our children cry. What a beautiful
sound!
Chloe is now 3 years old
and full of so much love and energy! She has an imagination
like no other. She loves to play outside, ride her tri-cycle
and scooter. She loves baby dolls and Disney Princesses.
She loves to read and play dress up. She is typical 3 year old
little girl. This is all possible because of the research
being done by the March of Dimes. We will never forget when
Dr. David Wright came into our room after having Chloe. Dr.
Wright delivered our first two boys. He said to us…if Chloe
was born 20 years ago, we would be having the same discussion that
we had when we lost our boys. But because of the research that
has been done, we have a little girl that we could bring home.
What an amazing gift that we have been given!
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